Respectful Relating
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
Everyone has their vote related to how they experience you. Respecting yourself and others is a smart choice to create ease and joy in your life experience and to build legendary love. […]
Beauty Needs A Witness: Understanding Him and Her
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
Understand her? Understand him? People have a desire to be understood. Is it possible…to fully understand her or him? She is beautiful. He notices. BEAUTY, MEET CONSCIOUSNESS. […]
LISTENING IS IMPORTANT
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
It’s important to listen and identify where your partner is communicating from in order to support their current needs and to create a safe environment from which they can relate to you. […]
RELATIONAL REALITY AND WHY IT’S IMPORTANT
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
How many times, in the past, have you experienced people fighting about whose reality is right? A way to remedy this common confusion is to create safety through a shared reality with that person. […]
WHO DETERMINES THE MEANING OF YOUR COMMUNICATION
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
Two sets of meanings are created when you communicate with someone. There is the intent, your positive intention of what you want the listener to receive; and then there is the impact, what the listener actually receives. When you communicate with someone, you are in charge of what you send and they are in charge of how they receive it. […]
“I LOVE YOU” WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
I LOVE YOU, what does that mean? Love is different from attraction, desire, need or want. Love is appreciation; being seen fully by another as you are: “I appreciate you.” […]
AGREEMENTS vs. EXPECTATIONS
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
An expectation is something that only one person wants, needs, or hopes for; an agreement is something that two or more people agree will or will not occur. An agreement between two people is more effective than an expectation. […]
THE COST AND BENEFIT OF RULES IN RELATIONSHIP
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
A rule is an obligation, and in order to be enforced requires systems of control that take time, energy, resources, etc. Rules feel stifling and are constrictive to both the sender and the receiver; rules are required for systems but they do not create happy or sustainable partnerships (read on to find a better strategy). […]
THE VALUE OF TRUTH
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
The process of being understood takes two-way communication and dialogue with people who are interested in understanding and being understood. This process is supported when the two people are telling the truth. […]
LOVE AND COMPASSION
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
As humans, we will always want to grow and evolve to the next level and if we accept and appreciate who we are now, with love and compassion, our growth accelerates exponentially. Whatever your desired change, love and compassion are mighty forces that will help you. […]
IS LOVE ENOUGH?
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
INTENTION & IMPACT ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS: You may be attracted…You may even adore them. And, do they feel loved by how you relate with them? A Relationship Becomes Mutually-Fulfilling & Sustainable When It Has All Three: ATTRACTION, INTIMACY & PARTNERSHIP. Attraction is short-lived without Intimacy. And Intimacy is not sustainable without Partnership. Physical intimacy is one of the seven major types of intimacy. A mutually fulfilling relationship is a dream team partnership. A partnership requires respecting agreements, boundaries, and values. Discover A-Z, Intimacy & Partnership skills. The ability to [...]
RAMPAGE ON BEING HAPPY AND FREE
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
APPRECIATE. BE BRILLIANT. CELEBRATE LIFE. […]
SOME QUICK THOUGHTS
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
Life sends subtle messages. If you do not listen, the messages get louder. Read on for more thoughts. […]
SIMPLE POST-MOVE-IN TIPS FOR THE SMART SEXY COUPLE
By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LOVECAMPUS.com
#1 Remember the intention for moving in…perhaps something like:
“We Are Here For Love.”
Unless you want the relationship your parents had…now is a great time to be very conscious about your next steps.
The relational patterns you start NOW will have a significant impact […]